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As a mother and a doctor, I know you are sometimes worried and afraid, overwhelmed and overstretched. But your families depend on you to be their foundation. You're imperfect. And that's okay.
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The other day, I was chatting with a female emergency medicine colleague about sleep. She mentioned that she hadn’t slept well in nearly a decade despite diligently adhering to all the sleep hygiene tips and taking HRT for peri-menopause-related sleep disturbances. Sleep can be challenging, especially if you have kids and work irregular hours. If […]
I’ve started to call my smartphone my “dumbphone.” After reading “the Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt (thanks Alexandra for the recommendation!), I can no longer conveniently ignore that I spend waaaaay too much time on my phone. I shudder when I hear statistics like “the average person will spend 9 years of their life on […]
To summarize it, this is how I map out the approaches to your great life. So, the “easy-no” is where you want to optimize efficiency. The “difficult-no” is where you want to understand your ego, internal validation and shame resilience. The “easy-yes” is where you want to harness the power of rituals and habits with […]
If you are like most doctors I know, it’s hard to imagine a life outside of the walls of medicine. I get it. It’s a lot of work to be a doctor. It’s a lot of work to maintain your knowledge and practise safely. Just like it’s a lot of work to be a mother/primary […]
For your great life to occur, it’s important to understand the difference between saying no out of fear and saying yes out of obligation. When you say yes out of a sense of obligation, really this is a “difficult-no.” But when you say no out of fear, really you’re dealing with a “difficult-yes.” In both […]
