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Habits

“my experience with wild fit”

This past fall, a program called Wild Fit caught my attention. It advertises itself as “not a diet” but more of a way of life with an emphasis on behavioural changes and honouring how humans have traditionally eaten based on the seasons. I’ve never been a sweet snacker (my weakness is chips), but even I […]

Habits

“my mobility habit”

I’m not sure if I’m imagining it, but when I look at the other emerg docs in my group around the same age as me, they look so stiff. I saw one awkwardly bend over to pick up a fallen pen, and it looked…ungraceful. It’s a sign–and now, one of my non-negotiable daily habits is […]

Habits

“the beauty of a morning walk”

I was recently at a reunion dinner with medical friends. One of them, a family doctor, told me he now routinely prescribes nature to his patients aligned with the amazing initiative PaRx (https://www.parkprescriptions.ca/en-ca). I remembered a CWIM talk mentioning this in one of the keynote sessions. It was a fascinating talk! I made a mental […]

Work Life Balance

“why I’m revisiting the quality of my sleep”

I saw a beautiful graphic that talked about real riches. It went something like this: Good quality sleep The ability to have slow mornings The chance to enjoy a coffee in silence Home-cooked meals with your family A garden… My initial reaction was “does this person even go to work?!!” Then I remembered how much […]

Work Life Balance

“revisiting my smartphone use”

I’ve started to call my smartphone my “dumbphone.” After reading “the Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt (thanks Alexandra for the recommendation!), I can no longer conveniently ignore that I spend waaaaay too much time on my phone. I shudder when I hear statistics like “the average person will spend 9 years of their life on […]

Work Life Balance

“let’s destroy this idea forever, shall we?”

Never ever EVER (and not just if it’s the new year, but as a general approach to life) feel that it’s too late. Too late to retrain and change specialties. Too late to move to another country. Too late to be a parent. Too late to rebuild a relationship. Too late to end a relationship. […]

Habits

“fluidity and alignment”

I recently saw an ad for a retreat for female doctors that sounded just perfect. Workshops that address work-life balance (or integration). Parenting workshops. Boundary exercises. Morning yoga. Good food. Coffee. Scenic location. You get the idea. All the good stuff and more! But I don’t plan to go. I have the time to go. […]

Mindset

“think of burnout recovery as more than a quick fix”

One of the most powerful ways to change your life is to change your mindset. Seriously. It’s free. It’s completely under your control. No need for Boxing Day sale crushes or pesky returns because it’s the wrong size. No need for anyone’s permission. No need for anyone else to change. And one of the most […]

Coaching Tools

“finish the year with this powerful exercise”

Here’s how I like to reflect on my life at the end the year–I sit down and look through all of the photos I’ve taken on my smartphone since January 1st. Do you want to try this too? If so, get out your phone and start from January 1, 2025 and look at each image. […]

Mindset

“follow the objection and see what happens”

The only difference between the “you-with-the-crappy-life and the “you-with-the-great-life” is this: the great-life-YOU is willing to act imperfectly. Every day. Each day. Even if it feels like today is not the right day. Seriously. That’s the main difference between those who carpe diem and those who stay stuck. Can you get curious when you notice […]