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As a mother and a doctor, I know you are sometimes worried and afraid, overwhelmed and overstretched. But your families depend on you to be their foundation. You're imperfect. And that's okay.
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I saw a beautiful graphic that talked about real riches. It went something like this: Good quality sleep The ability to have slow mornings The chance to enjoy a coffee in silence Home-cooked meals with your family A garden… My initial reaction was “does this person even go to work?!!” Then I remembered how much […]
I’ve started to call my smartphone my “dumbphone.” After reading “the Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt (thanks Alexandra for the recommendation!), I can no longer conveniently ignore that I spend waaaaay too much time on my phone. I shudder when I hear statistics like “the average person will spend 9 years of their life on […]
Never ever EVER (and not just if it’s the new year, but as a general approach to life) feel that it’s too late. Too late to retrain and change specialties. Too late to move to another country. Too late to be a parent. Too late to rebuild a relationship. Too late to end a relationship. […]
To summarize it, this is how I map out the approaches to your great life. So, the “easy-no” is where you want to optimize efficiency. The “difficult-no” is where you want to understand your ego, internal validation and shame resilience. The “easy-yes” is where you want to harness the power of rituals and habits with […]
I’ve told you before how much I hate public speaking. I still get a sense of dread when I have to give a talk. And even more than public speaking, I hate promoting myself. And still, every day I search for opportunities to speak in public and promote the work I do as a coach. […]
If you are like most doctors I know, it’s hard to imagine a life outside of the walls of medicine. I get it. It’s a lot of work to be a doctor. It’s a lot of work to maintain your knowledge and practise safely. Just like it’s a lot of work to be a mother/primary […]
When I was an emergency medicine resident, people asked me “why are you interested in aerospace medicine?” When I was in business school, people asked me “why is a doctor studying business?” When I was in photography school, well…no one really cared what I did for a living in photography school. When I was in […]
For your great life to occur, it’s important to understand the difference between saying no out of fear and saying yes out of obligation. When you say yes out of a sense of obligation, really this is a “difficult-no.” But when you say no out of fear, really you’re dealing with a “difficult-yes.” In both […]
One summer, I was invited to six (6) weddings! Three of those weddings were on the same day. Luckily, I wasn’t close to one of the inviters (an “easy-no”), but I really wanted to attend the other two weddings happening on the same day. Technically I attended five weddings that summer, but in reality I […]
The “easy-yes” are the things you want to nurture and protect. It’s clear for you to say “yes, I want more of this in my life!” In order to protect the “easy-yes” quadrant of your life, you need to develop discipline. And in order to develop discipline, you have to improve your habits. If you […]
