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To summarize it, this is how I map out the approaches to your great life. So, the “easy-no” is where you want to optimize efficiency. The “difficult-no” is where you want to understand your ego, internal validation and shame resilience. The “easy-yes” is where you want to harness the power of rituals and habits with […]
If you are like most doctors I know, it’s hard to imagine a life outside of the walls of medicine. I get it. It’s a lot of work to be a doctor. It’s a lot of work to maintain your knowledge and practise safely. Just like it’s a lot of work to be a mother/primary […]
For your great life to occur, it’s important to understand the difference between saying no out of fear and saying yes out of obligation. When you say yes out of a sense of obligation, really this is a “difficult-no.” But when you say no out of fear, really you’re dealing with a “difficult-yes.” In both […]
The “easy-yes” are the things you want to nurture and protect. It’s clear for you to say “yes, I want more of this in my life!” In order to protect the “easy-yes” quadrant of your life, you need to develop discipline. And in order to develop discipline, you have to improve your habits. If you […]
When I was an emergency medicine resident, I was very keen on aerospace medicine. I attended adult space camp (!). Not once, but twice. I did an elective at NASA. I watched the film Apollo 11 in historic Mission Control (where “Houston, we have a problem” was first heard). I flew an experiment on a […]
