“why I’m revisiting the quality of my sleep”

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January 28, 2026

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I saw a beautiful graphic that talked about real riches.

It went something like this:

Good quality sleep

The ability to have slow mornings

The chance to enjoy a coffee in silence

Home-cooked meals with your family

A garden…

My initial reaction was “does this person even go to work?!!”

Then I remembered how much my dumbphone stole from my weekly time (TOO MUCH). And I realized that as long as I minimized my phone use, I could have TWO of those riches, namely:

great sleep (both quantity and quality)

AND

slow mornings (because I will have slept well and joined the 5 am club).

Huh. Isn’t that interesting?

Now that I’m on sabbatical, I have the rare opportunity to sleep regularly. But it’s been many years now that I’ve been exploring ways to improve my sleep as a shift worker.

Recently, I bought a simple bedside alarm clock that has the option to emit Level 1 light to Level 6. I can turn off the numbers completely (but the alarm will still function). That, plus the blackout curtains, gives me the requisite cave-like darkness I now know I need.

Then I moved my smartphone out of the bedroom. Because, weird fact, I wake up once per night at 2:30 am. No phone in reach means NO TEMPTATIONS!

I also bought a contour pillow that exactly supports my neck in neutral while I sleep on my back. At first, it felt like a head prison. But now I wake up neck pain-free and I’m never going back!

Most recently, I invested in a high-quality silk pillowcase. The pillowcase was such a luxurious purchase, and part of me felt I didn’t deserve it or that it was too much of a hype.

But, you know what?

I quite enjoy the silk!

It feels cool against my skin.

I don’t have as many knots in my hair in the morning.

And it looks so pretty to have a row of chubby pillows on my bed. Hotel vibe accomplished!

A few years back, I invested in the warmest duvet I could find on the market.

And last year, I switched to winter sheets made of cashmere. I didn’t think the switch would make a difference, but since I’m a cold sleeper and a blanket kicker, the combination was outstanding!

My sleep has felt so restorative these past three months. I don’t even experience the mid-afternoon slump or crave a nap.

Now if only I can do something about my cold toes…

Question: “does giving up some screen time seem like too much to pay for great sleep and the ability to have a slow morning? It was worth it to me, but what will you choose?”

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