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Work Life Balance

“the value of optimization”

The internet is full of useful efficiency hacks. “How to meal prep a week’s worth of food in under one hour” “How to automatically save money with this one app” “How to read a book in 15 minutes” “How to see more patients per hour” “How to use AI scribe to cut down your paperwork” […]

Work Life Balance

“the easy-no”

Author Brianna Wiest wrote, “there are four natural sanctuaries: silence, solitude, stillness, and simplicity.” The last part, simplicity, has been instrumental in my burnout recovery. In fact, simplicity has been the word of my year for the past 5 years. A simple life = a life built on priorities. YOUR priorities. Essential for simplicity is […]

Work Life Balance

“the framework that gets you your great life”

Is that too big of a promise? Haha! I stand by it. This framework came to me while I was in the shower. I almost sprained my ankle to map it out for you all, so…you know it’s going to be great! So what is this great life framework anyway? It’s a simplicity filter! I […]

Work Life Balance

“know how you spend your time”

Yes, that’s right. I want you to do a time audit. (GROOOAAAANNNNNN). Why? Do you ever feel that your life is governed by crises rather than true priorities? Like the dog gets sick and needs to see the vet. Your attic has a new leak. Or your child has a test tomorrow and just told […]

Work Life Balance

“when self-care is not enough”

What is your favourite way to relieve stress? Have you ever found yourself indulging in your favourite stress reliever, only to feel jarred back to the terrible truth that your reality has not changed (and maybe even feels worse than ever)? Did the stress reliever do its job and provide real comfort and rejuvenation? Or […]

Work Life Balance

“if you chase it all, you miss the WHOLE”

You might call it work life balance or work life integration, but in the end, it’s a function of wanting to be great in two areas that compete—motherhood and a career in medicine. To be in two places at once. Maybe, like me, you have even wished to be cloned so that you could handle […]

Mindset

the one thing that truly matters

When you’re a medical student, your dreams are as big as mountains. Vast, seemingly limitless. You dream of travel, your possible future partner, where you will work and climb the ladder. As a resident, you start to let medical culture mould you. You choose a speciality and adopt its personality. You start to grow a […]

Shame

“the sure way to lose”

Imagine this: You wake up, pee, and then take a shower… Wait, what—was that a dream? (Right? Aren’t there about 20 missing steps in that sequence???) Whether you’re the only one to react to the dirty sock lying next to the hamper, the first one who steps up to say YES to help a sick […]

Work Life Balance

“your plate is too big”

Even better than “having it all” is being very clear with what you want in the first place. Your “all” and my “all” are going to be different. But if you accept society’s definition of “all”, you might be chasing a lot of things without 100% energy–ultimately gaining very little happiness in the process.  My family recently […]

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